日本語道場
Nihongo Dojo — N3 → N2
N2
~手前
~temae
given that, for the sake of appearances
When to use it
Use ~手前 in reports, negotiations, or internal discussions to explain that, having said or done something publicly, you cannot now back out without losing face. It frames an obligation that comes from appearances and social position rather than from rules or logic, and is nearly always followed by a negative-possibility ending such as ~わけにはいかない・~できない・~しかない. Distinguish it from 以上(は), which stresses logical commitment, and from ~からには, which lacks the face-saving nuance.
Formation
Examples
Having proposed it myself, I can hardly pull out at this stage.
In front of my staff, I can't voice complaints about the president's policy.
Having declared there was no issue, it's awkward to correct my report.
Since we promised the client, we have no choice but to protect the deadline.
As the one training the junior staff, I can hardly show up late myself.