日本語道場

Nihongo Dojo — N3 → N2

Grammar

N2

~いたしかねます

~itashikanemasu

I regret that I am unable to

When to use it

Use this when you must decline a request, refuse a condition, or say something is outside what you can do, and you want maximum politeness and distance — it softens a flat 「できません」 into an institutional "I am regrettably not in a position to." It is standard in customer replies, negotiation emails, and formal notices, and is far more common in writing and scripted service speech than in casual conversation. Note the contrast with 〜かねない ("may well happen"): 〜かねます is negative-in-meaning despite the affirmative-looking form.

Formation

  • Verbs (する compounds): noun + いたしかねます — 対応いたしかねます、ご返答いたしかねます (the humble いたす replaces する)
  • Verbs (native/和語): お + masu-stem + いたしかねます — お引き受けいたしかねます、お答えいたしかねます
  • Plain register equivalent: masu-stem + かねます/かねる — 判断しかねます、答えかねる
  • i-adjectives / na-adjectives / nouns: cannot attach; recast with a verb (ご対応いたしかねます) or use 〜は難しい状況です/〜いたしかねる状況です
  • Frequently prefaced by 恐れ入りますが、誠に申し訳ございませんが、社内規定により etc., and often closed with ので、ご了承ください

Examples

  • I am very sorry, but we are unable to process a refund.

  • Under company policy, we regret we cannot discount any further.

  • At this point I'm afraid I can't commit to a delivery date.

  • Regarding customers' personal information, I'm unable to comment.

  • On those terms, I regret that we cannot take this on.